Maybe This Person Isn’t Right For You

Lori Moulton 💗
5 min readFeb 16, 2024

10 signs you might be in the wrong relationship.

Notebook with pros and cons list, with a wedding ring lying on top of it.
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Your relationship feels so confusing sometimes. One day, you feel like you love this person, and you want to spend the rest of your life with them. After all, you’ve made a commitment to them. Your lives are intertwined, with friends, family, even children. You’ve been together for a long time. They know all your secrets, all the things you love, all the things you hate, and they get how you can’t stand cold weather, you love plants, and you will never live in a crowded city.

But, they get mean sometimes, really mean. When you argue, they get loud and scary, standing over you, intimidating you. It’s not that they physically hurt you, although sometimes it feels like they could. They rage for what feels like hours. You can’t sleep after all the stress and turmoil, whereas, they sleep like a baby. Then you get the silent treatment for days. These arguments don’t happen all the time, just sometimes. However, when they do happen, you feel so stressed, and you can’t ever truly relax. It feels like maybe this person isn’t right for you.

How Do You Know If It’s Time To Leave, or if You Just Need Better Communication?

You feel confused. I mean, friends and relatives are telling you to leave them, but you love…

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Lori Moulton 💗
Lori Moulton 💗

Written by Lori Moulton 💗

Certified Transformational Coach, Masters in School Counseling, Teacher, Author

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